Basically, I read Graham Lord’s “Niv” biography on holiday a couple of years ago and ended up more interested in Hjördis’ life than David’s.
Searching the internet for more information revealed a stunning amount of unsympathetic and misogynistic things said about her. I work for a website that provides information and support to pregnant women and young mothers, so (amongst other things) I noticed the lack of sympathy for her many miscarriages.
A few “Niv” book reviews on Amazon showed that I wasn’t alone. To quote Mr (or Mrs) ‘A Customer’:
“There are also some serious double standards at work here. His second wife is excoriated for her infidelities while Niven’s are laughed off as a part of his incurable randyness. Long before the end of this book I was firmly on the side of Hjördis, the unfortunate second Mrs Niven, but the author and Niven’s close friends clearly do not believe the old adage that there are two sides to every story.”
As information about Hjördis kept turning up, I began writing it all down, purely for myself. When the website took shape, I saw that it could also provide a different (and hopefully balanced) perspective on Hjördis for other curious searchers.
There is also the hope that people who actually knew Hjördis will feel that they can contribute.
Me? Oh. I’m 53 (though look 51 in low lighting conditions, I hope) and live on the south coast of England with my wife and two teenage daughters. I’m not a movie buff, or a journalist, or Swedish, or a relative of either Niven.